Atta boy ... and girl!

Ahh...the Positive Power of Kids! Nothing like a little reality check to whip us back into shape. It's interesting to me when an argument gets interrupted (by just about anyone), how far from the real issue/s we seem to be.
In regards to the making up..... Right On "Brother & Sister Pete". When my twin sons were about 20 or 21 they came to stay with me for a couple of months. The house rule was "If mama ain't gettin any, ain't nobody gettin any!" Well, I'm once again "not gettin any" so I'll just pretend that second round of making up was for me. Thanks, I needed that.

I'm sorry to offend, but I have to tell you what I think.

You are so disrespectful. You want intimacy from Donna? Yet you go behind her back to blog about her for the whole world to read about her sexual issues? Poor woman. You are expecting a hell of a lot out of her. Give her a break. She wears the g's because that's probably all she knows. She takes them off and TRIES to get sexy with you in bed, but you just blast her for not being "authentic" enough? What have YOU done for HER lately? How about this: Encourage her come to bed with the garments ON, (because that's obviously what makes her comfortable) but tell her how BEAUTIFUL she is anyway. Look into her eyes. Tell her you love her. Touch her. Adore her. Appreciate her. Lavish her with praise and affection. You want authentic intimacy? Try being authentic yourself.

I really feel for your wife because it sound like she's trying desperately to do the right thing both in her religion AND with her husband. Yet she's screwed on both ends. She can't win either way. She can't be "good" enough as a Mormon (no one can.....been there, done that myself) and she can't be "good" enough for you either apparently.