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I'm Really, Really Going To Need Your Help With This

Thursday, June 26, 2008

I need a favor. Can you, real quick, go read every post on this site and tell me which ones I need to delete?

Earlier today, I was checking out my server logs and noticed a couple of referrals from Google searches for "ur mom's a nice piece of lettuce". Interesting. Then I noticed the IP address of the visitor. I mean, I recognized the IP address.

It's my home IP address. I knew Donna wasn't at home. A quick glance at my IM buddy list confirmed what I already knew. My oldest daughter, Megan, was online. The Google search was hers.

P: What are you doing?

M: Chatting with friends.

P: And?

M: And... playing games.

P: And?

M: And what?

P: What site are you on?

M: addictivegames.com

P: I know what site you are on. Just tell me. I'm not mad.

M: You know?

P: Yes.

M: Ugg. About my myspace?

P: Umm... what?!?

M: Are you mad?

P: Well, I'll forgive you about your secret site if you forgive me of mine.

M: OK. So I can keep my myspace.

P: No. Now stop reading my site.

M: OK

So yeah. We've had to have a little talk about boundaries and staying safe online tonight. It went pretty well, actually. It went like this.

"Daddy is embarrassed that you found his site like you did. It's not really for kids."

"Is there stuff about me on there?"

"Umm... yes."

"Daddy!"

So, yeah. I really do need to do a little belated censoring. I think I got most of the really embarrassing stuff shuffled away into the ether of unpublished blog posts and middle school journals. But if you see anything that I missed.

PLEASE TELL ME.

Honestly, I would have done this whole blog thing differently if I had it to do over again. Maybe it's time to come out to everyone I know.

Or, you know, not.


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I just saw that she found

I just saw that she found this on twitter.....yeah, she is going to read it no matter what she says. At least, I know that I would if it were my parents. I would get a nanny program and block the site. Or tell her it is all lies to get more hits.

ps I have been reading you for about a year now (found you through a comment on blurbomat) and would be sad if you quit now!

Um

So what exactly do you feel needs hiding in here from your own kids?

I can only imagine good coming from it, in terms of discussions prompted and such. Sure, some of those discussions would (and should) include boundaries, largely centering around their own embarrassment issues.

Beyond that, what's the big deal?

I'm very confused.

well

There are some specific details concerning the events surrounding our separation a few years ago that Donna and I prefer the kids aren't privy to. There's no need. It would only hurt them.

i c

Maybe I missed or forgot about those. Carry on then. ;)

testing testing

I had a whole comment typed out then couldn't do anything with it...

I agree

I've read a lot of your old stuff and while it was very intense and interesting, I'm sure your kids don't want to see it. Maybe when they're older.

But don't quit being "Pete Dunn" just because you've been outed!!! You're too much fun to read!

:)

OUTED!

I know how you feel. I was recently found online by my neighbours(that's Canadian for 'neighbors'), who I wrote about often. They even had their own category. I never thought that they would read it since they didn't even know my last name or anything about me. I maintained their anonymity of course. However, THEY knew who I was writing about. This lead to a rather awkward conversation/apology. I then proceeded to delete every mention of them.

Sometimes the delete button is your friend.

Ah well

Personally, her getting some online commentary from you is probably better than the indecent spam mails she receives on MySpace or the some of the other crap circulating the internet.

Eek. Is This My Future?

hey there,

not entirely sure how i wound up here, but i'm glad i did nonetheless. and this post is a complete and utter wakeup call. i've been blogging about my kids (and anything else that the wind blows in) since 2002, which means most of my DD's life - and all of my DS's life - is live and uncut online, so to speak. i try not to say things that will make them cringe, but who am i kidding: when they're teens, simply breathing the same air that i do will make them cringe.

so let me just tell you that: a) you're a hoot, and b) i think i am going to go and have a nervous breakdown now. IRL ;-)

When I found your site, I

When I found your site, I moved around and read quite a bit, and nothing THAT bad really popped out at me, but I'm sure I didn't read everything.

(And, sorry for the comment SPAM- I'm catching up after having not visited for a while...)

Does your blog allow you to password protect certain posts?

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